Vera, 42 Y. ID156903

I am an sensitive and tactile person who is easily moved to tears by touching and friendly moments. Although I enjoy spending time on my own, I am not a loner. Therefore, quiet dialogue and the emotional, friendly side of a relationship are very important to me. Conflicts are not my thing—I avoid heated arguments about relationships, value harmony, and find constant criticism difficult to bear. Sarcastic jokes or mockery are a no-go for me, because I am looking for a loving and respectful connection. I enjoy spending time together, traveling, and staying in small, charming hotels. When I fall in love, I do my best to surprise my partner, and it is important to me that they do the same. It is also important to me that my partner takes the initiative. I appreciate it when he is able to organize trips and meetings and make actual plans. For me, the feeling of security and safety—both emotional and physical—is of utmost importance. I can only fall in love in the presence of a man whom I trust completely. I'm not interested in dating for years; I believe that a period of up to six months is appropriate to see if it works between us. After that, the next step should be to move in together. I don't cope well with uncertainty and indecision in a relationship. I'm looking for a partner who is clear and confident so that we can build a harmonious future together.